Born: 11/19/20 Died: 10/25/06
86 years young, descended from the Maumee Indian Tribe in Hillsdale, Michigan. She was an angel and a protector for her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She would have been 87 this month.
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|Ontime (320)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:35:39 AM
Just a note to let y`all know that I`m grieving the loss of my mom who passed away recently. I`ve been out of town for a couple of weeks and only returned last night.
|from-me-to-u (10)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:37:21 AM
Sorry, for your loss.
|lcrewsart (9)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:44:21 AM
Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
|takeabreak (222)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:50:36 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss. Just remember she is always with you and helping you get through this even though you cant see her.
|THE GOOD-E BOX! (76)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:57:19 AM
OH MY. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
|GLORIOUSMORNING (1)||Posted 10/30/2006 9:04:49 AM
You don`t know me but I am sorry for your loss.
I`ll pray for you to be comforted. GG
|pjstrinkets (86)||Posted 10/30/2006 9:09:11 AM
aw sweetie I`m so so sorry. I`m sending you lots of hugs.
|CuFF (254)||Posted 10/30/2006 9:14:58 AM
Oh Pammy, I am so sorry, honey! I`m sending you many prayers xoxoxox
|bklingensmith (0)||Posted 10/30/2006 9:47:48 AM
I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
|Snafu (429)||Posted 10/30/2006 9:51:04 AM
|BeeLineTooHive (51)||Posted 10/30/2006 10:24:33 AM
so sorry for your loss..... may God protect you and sheild you from as much pain as he can and let you lean on him for the rest. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours
|Freebird Computers (8)||Posted 10/30/2006 11:14:26 AM
Sorry about your loss Pam, prayers coming for you and your family from Iowa.
|SKETER (337)||Posted 10/30/2006 11:29:11 AM
ONTIME IM SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
|Hog Heaven (594)||Posted 10/30/2006 2:08:40 PM
Oh, Pam, my heart goes out to you. Just know that she is in a better place. My prayers go out to you and your loved ones.
|audis (266)||Posted 10/30/2006 2:14:08 PM
|WHOSNEXT (129)||Posted 10/30/2006 2:14:14 PM
ONTIME....Pam , Our thougths & prayers go out to you & the family in your time of grief.
|LaBuck (53)||Posted 10/30/2006 2:29:34 PM
I do feel your grief and I know that prayers and time will only heal the loneliness you are going through. My Daddy went to be with the Lord 3 Christmas`s ago. It was certainly a blue Christmas without him. He was only 63 years young. I still have my mother, I am so grateful. Home can be so unusual without those precious mothers around.
God Bless you and comfort you and your family...try to focus on the positive and all the precious times you had with her.
|SweetWaxScentsations (152)||Posted 10/30/2006 2:41:56 PM
Ontime... I am very sorry for your loss.
I lost my dad 1 yr. and 6 mths. ago. I don`t think the grief ever leaves you.
I have really bad days and some days I do ok with it.
Seems like the longer they are gone the `wanting to see them` is sooooo strong. My dad was only 67 but he is no longer in pain.
I plan to see him again one day in a much better place...
Hugs and blessings to you
|Janandpals (57)||Posted 10/30/2006 3:01:51 PM
So sorry to hear this Pam.
May the Lord be at your side to help you through this difficult time.
|WV HILLBILLY (382)||Posted 10/30/2006 3:38:36 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss. Prayer`s sent from West Virginia.
|crazy cat (179)||Posted 10/30/2006 3:45:13 PM
Bless you and prayers are sent
|hollowcreekfarm (419)||Posted 10/30/2006 4:26:30 PM
Pammy, I am so very sorry about your mom. I`ve been keeping her in my prayers, and know that she is walking in His garden now. Sending prayers for you and your family.
|CBDPR (73)||Posted 10/30/2006 4:40:04 PM
I know how you feel. I was a mommas boy and I watched mine die in 2001. I still miss her every day. Some people will say to just get over it, but its something you cant. The only advice I can offer is to live life and be happy. I know its cheezy advice but parents just want thier rugrats to be happy....
|tandgmart (248)||Posted 10/30/2006 4:45:55 PM
. so sorry for your loss.
|diamondsquirrel (54)||Posted 10/30/2006 4:47:28 PM
I lost my mother on January 2, 2005. Not a moment goes by that I wish I could call her and hear her voice & funny little snidely whiplash laff again!
It`s going to take some time kiddo but, the pain will subside sweetie, I promise!
|dcorbett (418)||Posted 10/30/2006 5:21:40 PM
Yes, those of us who have buried our Mothers will be praying for you. My Mother went home to be with Jesus on May 19th, 2001 and I miss her so much, she was my best friend.
May God give you comfort in this time of loss.
|GotFlics? (40)||Posted 10/30/2006 6:32:44 PM
Sorry to here of your loss. Best wishes for you and yours ....
|FullCountSports (202)||Posted 10/30/2006 7:12:04 PM
Heart felt prayers for you an yours.
|Texas-Treasure (387)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:23:27 PM
Pam, I`m so very sorry. I hope you did get to enjoy your time with her, since we last talked. You know where I am, if you want to talk..hugs, Sherry
|CaseLotBuys (97)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:40:03 PM
Prayers headed your way from just down the road.
May God be with you and keep you strong during this time of grief.
|ezbids (42)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:41:51 PM
sorry to hear of your loss prayers sent.
|Jeanne's Odds & Ends (248)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:46:51 PM
|smiley9 (6)||Posted 10/30/2006 8:59:23 PM
|fransthings (97)||Posted 10/30/2006 11:40:38 PM
PRayers sent your way. I know how hard it is. My mother went home to be with the Lord 8 years ago and I think of her still. I did most of my grieving while she was alive and was suffering but I still miss her terribly. I am glad she is hot suffering anymore and I look forward to seeing her again some day soon.
You must hold onto the Lord. He will hold your hand.
|dfrazier18 (34)||Posted 10/30/2006 11:52:49 PM
I`m so very sorry for your loss.
|simplycountry (61)||Posted 10/31/2006 6:10:15 AM
Sorry to hear of this loss for you Pam.
Hugs & prayers to you
|MissDee (14)||Posted 10/31/2006 9:12:09 AM
You have my deepest sympathy...
|dodah (80)||Posted 10/31/2006 9:35:44 AM
Pam, I am so so sorry to hear of your mother`s passing. I know you are really hurting and I am sorry.
I will say prayers for you in hopes that you will be able to cope better and try to think only of the good times with your mother.
I lost my mom this past June and have been very depressed over her untimely death. I still cry everyday for her. It is hard to deal with and if you want an ear, my email is on my about me page.
Hugs for you!
|bmomof4 (280)||Posted 10/31/2006 10:18:57 AM
for your healing and mourning, Pam. My sympathy and love
|Userhc2001 (446)||Posted 10/31/2006 8:38:43 PM
My heartfelt condolensces, Ontime.
|Dimple (46)||Posted 10/31/2006 9:02:33 PM
I`m so sorry to hear about your mom. My prayers are with you and yours.
|Ontime (320)||Posted 11/1/2006 9:40:31 AM
Thank you everyone for your kind words, they are very much appreciated by my family and myself.
Love to all,
|oohbaby10 (48)||Posted 11/1/2006 5:56:44 PM
I`m so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my mom this past Christmas. I just remind myself that she`s much happier where she is now and that brings me a lot of comfort.
|xdefense.net (1)||Posted 11/1/2006 6:21:33 PM
Prayers for you and yours Pam.
|wheezerdog (8)||Posted 11/1/2006 6:27:17 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother to lung cancer in 1984. The loss that really bothered me was the time my children didn`t get to know and enjoy their grandmother.
The loss is a hurt that will never go away but you do learn to understand and accept it. Believe me I don`t say it because it`s easy but to help you understand that her time was over and she had another job to do. Now she wants you to be strong and take care of who is left and just set a place in yours and everyone elses heart and go on with your lives.
Good luck and just never, ever forget. Luv from us all.
|maggiez33 (19)||Posted 11/2/2006 7:47:36 AM
I`m so sorry Pam. Just remember she is always with you every minute of every day now.
My Mom passed on August 1, 1998, and I think of her every day.
Today is the 4th anniversary of my Dad`s death.
No matter how old you are, it is still difficult to be without parents. There is always a certain amount of comfort in knowing that they are there for you.
|Ontime (320)||Posted 11/2/2006 11:23:25 AM
Thank you everyone....how did you make the tears stop? I never knew I had so many tears in my eyes.
|GLORIOUSMORNING (1)||Posted 11/2/2006 11:49:21 AM
My dad died in surgery 16 years ago and I still cry now and then. We had such a good relationship and he gave me the greatest gift a dad can give his child. He said he knew I loved him because I was always there for him and he loved me too. My generations dads were the strong silent type.
Pam it will always hurt but it gets more bearable as the years go by. It`s the anniversarys that are hard. My dad died on my birthday.
I`m forever the same age now.
|dodah (80)||Posted 11/2/2006 11:53:03 AM
I don`t think I will ever get over losing my mom. I cry several times a day and every single night while I am trying to go to sleep.
My mom lived 350 miles from me and I called her every single day and sometimes twice in a day. I can`t explain just how close we were. I am crying now as I write this.
I don`t know how anyone can get over the loss of their mother.
It has only been 4 months since she died and I really do hope that I can eventually get through a day without the tears and the terrible ache.
I feel your pain and I pray that you too will soon be able to cope with your loss.
I am sending a big heartfelt hug to you and God bless you Pam.
|wheezerdog (8)||Posted 11/2/2006 12:37:46 PM
Hopefully the tears will never stop. It is your way of remembering your loved ones and I know with girls it`s especially hard when you lose your Mom.
Always remember her when you look your kids in the face and just stop for a moment and reflect. Below is a wonderful story for you to remember.
A Mother`s Tears
"Why are you crying?" he asked his Mom. "Because I`m a mother," she told him. "I don`t understand," he said. His mom just hugged him to her and said, "You never will."
Later the little boy asked his father why Mother seemed to cry for no reason. "All mothers cry for no reason," was all his dad could say. The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why mothers cry.
One night, he had a dream. In his dream, he called God on the telephone. When God came to the phone the man asked, "God, why do mothers cry so easily?"
God answered him, "My son, you see, when I made mothers, I knew they had to be special. I made their shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave them an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times come from their children and mates. I gave them a hardiness that allows them to keep going when everyone else gives up, and to take care of their families through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave them the sensitivity to love their children under all circumstances, even when their child has hurt them very badly. This same sensitivity helps them to make a child`s boo-boo feel better and helps them share a teenager`s anxieties and fears. I gave them a tear to shed. It`s theirs, exclusively, to use whenever needed. It`s their only weakness. It is a tear for mankind."
Write this story down because my dear you have a million more tears to shed and I know you will be good at it. All children are when it comes to their Mom`s.
All my best,
|lamylouy (140)||Posted 11/2/2006 2:04:04 PM
We have both lost our Mom`s and know the saddness of the heart this brings.
Prayers for comfort and love are also sent for you Pam.
Janie and Pat
|maggiez33 (19)||Posted 11/2/2006 2:59:07 PM
Pam, about the tears. You have to cry! It will help you to heal.
What you can do for your Mom is to talk about her every day, and remember, remember, remember. It is now your job to help carry on her memory. You need to tell stories of your memories of your Mom to your kids and grandkids. This is what life is all about, because some day we all will die. The whole reason we were put on this earth is to make our mark, and your Mom did her job. Now the torch is passed to you.
It`s funny how little tidbits of memories get passed down the line. I was told stories by Mom and Grandma when I was a little girl, and now I find myself repeating them to my own granddaughter. And the things that you don`t know, find out! If your Dad is still living, talk to him. If you have Aunts and Uncles, brothers, sisters, talk to them. They will have memories to share with you.
Just for you and yours. This page will be here as long as I am. JB:}
May your wonderful mothers memory, fill your heart with happiness until you meet again ~God Bless~
There's no pain like the pain of losing a loved one. I am so sorry for your loss.
May God Bless your family. Hillbilly
Your post was truly amazing: Thank you for your words of wisdom.
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